THE WHOLENESS METHODTM
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A transformational approach to
personal wholeness, marriage & intimacy.
Transform the patterns that keep you stuck—and experience greater wholeness, connection, and intimacy in the relationships that matter most.​​
Christ-centered coaching that integrates biblical wisdom, relationship research, and nervous-system education.
Tell me a little about what's going on.
I'll personally respond and help
you determine the best next step.
• MARRIAGE
• INDIVIDUAL WHOLENESS
• INTIMACY & DESIRE
Hi, I'm Jacob Reeve.
For more than 20 years—through pastoral ministry, marriage education, and personal coaching—I've helped individuals and couples navigate some of the most important and difficult areas of life—marriage, relationships, personal transformation, faith, and intimacy.
Over those years, I've become convinced that lasting change rarely happens by addressing just one part of a person's life.
We're whole people.
Our nervous systems shape how we experience safety, stress, and connection. Our past shapes our patterns. Our beliefs shape the way we see ourselves and others. And all of it eventually shows up in our relationships.
The Wholeness Method™ is a faith-informed coaching and educational framework that helps you understand your relational patterns, identify what may be keeping you stuck, and practice meaningful changes in the way you live and love.
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My goal isn't simply to help you understand your problems.
It's to help you experience real change.
Professional Endorsements
"Jacob has a very unique gift for understanding people. I would highly recommend him for solving anything people related."​​
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- Mike Frank
(Former Senior VP - PepsiCo & The Walt Disney Company)
"Jacob Reeve has been one of the greatest influencers in my life."​​​
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- Rob Dayton
(National Director of Coaches for The Masters Program & Founder of 100X Life)
"Jacob is likely one of the best marriage coaches in the nation. If anyone wants a better marriage, don't miss this."​​​
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- Steven Uggen
(Founder & Director of Firebase Movement & Man Church)
HOW CAN I HELP?
I usually work with individual men, couples, or entire church communities. My work focuses primarily on individual and relational wholeness—and often, the two are deeply connected.
Sometimes the relationship itself needs attention. Other times, one or both people are going through significant personal changes that inevitably affect the relationship.
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My goal is to help identify where the real work needs to happen—and help you move forward from there.
Bring transformational marriage & wholeness training to your church or ministry.
A Different Approach
to Personal &
Relational Growth
It's more than a conversation.
It's more than a course.
It's personalized training
for real change.
Most of us were never trained in the fundamentals of creating a healthy life or a thriving relationship. And while every person and couple is different, many of the struggles we face can be traced back to a handful of deeper patterns.
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The Wholeness Method™ is designed to help uncover those root issues—then draw from more than 20 years of pastoral experience, research, and specialized training to focus on what you actually need.
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Rather than simply talking about what's wrong, we combine Spirit-led intuition with proven principles, tools, and practices that help you create real change in everyday life.
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Understand the Root. ​
Learn What You Need.​
Make Specific Adjustments.​
Practice real change. ​​
Real Stories.
Real Change.
"We haven't had a fight that ends negatively since we began... Our marriage has had a major turn around."​​​
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- Henry & Michelle Arroyo
"What an incredible experience. I was able to let go of the pain and give love to my wife again. This stuff is crazy powerful."​​​
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- Chris F.
"Jacob literally saved our marriage. We had no idea how dysfunctional our habits were, and how easy it could be to change them."​​​
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- Dom & Sarah Sanders
"Our experience was transformative. We felt lost and disillusioned and with little sense of hope, but within a few weeks, we were able to overcome major hurdles and rediscover love and connection again."​​​
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- Joshua & Carissa Stutsman
"What a gift! It was like giving Jesus direct access to our hearts..."​​​
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- Nicole & Wes Munyon
"Jacob helped me discover and replace several lies I was believing that kept me in broken patterns throughout my life. It changed the way I will think about myself forever."​​​
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- Mike R.
"Jacob has the gift of wisdom and revelation. We loved our time with him. It was truly transformative. ​​​
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- Jora & Liz Bhular
"EVERYONE should experience these training sessions, not just married couples."​​
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- Deborah Delms
WHAT YOU
CAN EXPECT:
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ASSESSMENT
We begin with a focused conversation and take personal inventories designed to identify patterns, strengths, goals, and areas for development.​
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DISCOVERY
Together, we explore what you discovered, clarify where you’re thriving or getting stuck, and identify evidence-informed principles that can support greater connection and personal growth.
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TRAINING
We train you in specific, real-life adjustments and help you practice new skills and behaviors that create lasting change.​
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REFLECTION & REPEAT
Together, we process what you're experiencing through meaningful conversation, reflection, prayer, and personalized exercises—then measure what's changing, make adjustments, and continue the process.​​
You don't just learn about yourself or your relationship. You put what you discover into practice—in your actual life, one intentional shift at a time.
Then we evaluate what happened, adjust what isn't working, and build on what is.
The goal isn't simply greater understanding.
It’s obtaining practical skills that help you recognize, practice, and evaluate meaningful progress over time.
YOU CAN CHOOSE
THE LEVEL OF SUPPORT
THAT'S RIGHT FOR YOU
Some people simply need the right information and tools. Others need personalized guidance, accountability, and time to create deeper change.
Choose the level of support that best fits your needs, goals, and budget.
SELF-GUIDED >
​Starting at $97
Work at your own pace​​
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Learn the fundamentals and begin making changes independently
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✓ Assessments & personalized results
✓ Online Training, exercises & tools
✓ Add a 90-minute facilitated session — $290
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4-WEEK FOCUSED COACHING >
$925 One-time investment
4 sessions over 4-8 weeks
Payment plans available
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Master the core fundamentals while focusing on the areas where you need the most help.
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✓ In-depth assessment & discovery
✓ Personalized training & exercises
✓ A tangible change to implement after each session​​​​​​
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12-WEEK TRANSFORMATION >
$2600 One-time investment
12 sessions over 3-5 months
Payment plans available
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Go deeper through a comprehensive 3-4 month process personalized around your patterns, needs, and goals.
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✓ Comprehensive assessment & discovery
✓ 12-part personalized training process
✓ Tangible changes to implement after each session​​​​​​
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ONGOING COMMITMENTS >
CUSTOMIZED PROGRAM & PRICING
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For couples or men dealing with crisis, infidelity, significant challenges, destructive patterns, or simply wanting continued, consistent care & counsel.
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✓ Personally tailored transformation plan
✓ Personalized frequency & level of support
✓ Ongoing check ins, guidance & support​​​​​​
FLEXIBLE PAYEMENT OPTIONS:
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Getting the right help shouldn't be out of reach. Flexible payment plans are available, and we offer different levels of support for different needs and budgets.
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If you're not sure what you can afford, start a conversation. We'll help you explore an option that may work for your situation.